For more than two decades, I’ve had a habit that’s deeply ingrained in my personality: as soon as I think of something, I plan it quickly and start executing it right away. During this process, I encounter challenges, identify problems, and strive to solve them. While this habit has helped me achieve a lot, it also brings its own set of challenges.

The Upside of the Habit

This quick-response habit enables me to work efficiently and systematically. Tasks move from chaos to order in clear stages, gradually becoming more refined. As problems arise, I create detailed to-do lists and action plans, ensuring that every step is well-organized and under control. This approach brings a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

The Downside of the Habit

However, this habit can also lead to undue stress. For instance, when faced with obstacles, I often overthink and feel overwhelmed. Sometimes, I even sacrifice sleep to stick to my schedule. During one bidding project, I stayed up three consecutive nights to polish every detail of the proposal. While it made me feel energized, like a young professional again, it also led to elevated blood pressure. This tendency to tackle everything head-on often prevents me from taking a step back to relax and enjoy life.

Reconsidering the Habit

I’ve frequently wondered if it might be better to let things unfold naturally instead of diving in immediately. But my instinct always drives me to plan and act without delay.

A Christmas Tree’s Inspiration

As Christmas approaches, I recently tried my hand at a DIY Christmas tree. This idea was inspired by a friend, Eva, who creates beautiful trees each year using items she finds at home. My previous attempts hadn’t met my expectations, so this year, I decided to turn it into a community activity. Within an hour, I launched a DIY Christmas tree campaign on Instagram, inviting others to share their creative projects. If this sounds like fun, feel free to check out my Instagram(@Mr_Kevin_Y)!

The Pictures above Take By Eva Cai. Her Christmas Tree idea from 2015-2023.